About The Weekly Wench
Welcome to The Weekly Wench—this isn’t just a blog, it’s a ministry, a movement, a love letter to every woman who’s done shrinking. This space exists for the ones who were told to stay quiet, to play small, to settle—and yet still chose to rise. I created this for the women who may not be ready to buy a ticket to the tour, afford a session, or even grab the book—but who still deserve access to the kind of wisdom that heals, liberates, and builds legacy. I also created it as an evergreen space for women from all walks of life—those who need inspiration, a reminder of their power, or a moment of clarity when everything feels cloudy. Each post is written like a sermon—truth-telling, soul-stirring, strategy-laced—and rooted in my commitment to make sure no woman has to start from scratch. You’ll find stories, reflections, and hard-won insight about reclaiming your voice, breaking generational patterns, preparing for your next level, and building a life that feels like freedom. This is the real work—the kind that feeds, not teases. This is for my mother, my grandmother, and every woman who came before me with fire in her bones but nowhere to put it. This is for the ones coming after me, so they can find language, tools, and evidence that it’s possible. This is more than a blog—it’s a movement. And we’re not shrinking anymore. Come get this word.
Redefining Success: Why It Means Freedom for Me
Success isn’t about degrees, job titles, or wealth—it’s about freedom. If you’re chasing society’s version of success, you might be building a prison of accomplishments. Here’s how to redefine success on your own terms—without apology.
The Manufactured Fear of Women: How a Narrative of Distrust Keeps Us Divided
For too long, we’ve been told that women don’t support each other—that we compete, tear each other down, and can’t be trusted. But that narrative was never meant to serve us; it was designed to divide us. It’s time to unlearn the myths, reclaim our sisterhood, and step into the power we’ve always had—together.
Why Ambitious Women Struggle to Celebrate Themselves (And Why That Needs to Change)
Why do ambitious women struggle to celebrate themselves? We hit a goal and immediately move on to the next one. We downplay wins, move the goalpost, and convince ourselves that stopping to celebrate means losing momentum. But what if celebration isn’t a distraction from success—what if it’s fuel for what’s next? Let’s talk about why recognizing your progress is a radical act of self-ownership.
Building Unshakable Confidence: A How-To Guide, Not Just the Hype
Tired of people telling you to “just be confident” without telling you how? This post gives you the exact steps to build unshakable confidence—no fluff, no vague advice. Learn how to rewrite your narrative, align your actions, and step into your power.
Soft and Hard: The Power of Holding Both
You were never meant to be just one thing. True power is knowing when to stand firm and when to soften. When to fight and when to trust. This post explores the strength in holding both—because real power isn’t choosing, it’s mastering both.
This Resilience “Ish” is for the Birds…But Bounce Back Anyway
The truth is, society loves to romanticize resilience. They’ll applaud you for being strong, for picking up the pieces, and for figuring it out when the plan goes left. What they don’t see are the teeth-gritted nights and the tears you refuse to let fall because you don’t have time to break. You’ve been stretched by life in ways that feel unfair, exhausting, and unrelenting. But every time, you’ve snapped back into the fight.
The Year of Impossible Possibilities
If your goal doesn’t make some folks jealous and others want front-row seats to witness it happen, you’re still playing too small.
Love + Success: The Redprint
Welcome to our February series— this month's focus is a blend of Black History and Love, and it’s titled Love + Business. This week, we explore examples from Black literature, history, and modern society, focusing on romantic couples navigating the delicate balance between love and success.
New Year, New Mindset: The Journey to Bad Girl Fit
In a world where women often feel confined by societal norms, discover the origins of 'Bad Girl Fit' – a groundbreaking mindset movement paving the way for personal transformation.
Juggling Motherhood, Ambition, and Gratitude During the Holidays (Part 1): A How-To Guide
We’re standing on the threshold of another holiday season, a time when many of us naturally gravitate towards reflections and gratitude. Yet, it's also a season that may clash with or complicate our ambitions and career goals.
The Power Is in the Process: A Keynote
Right now, you're sitting on a solution that could benefit thousands or even millions of people worldwide, not just in Madison. Yet, you haven't figured out how to reach 100 or a thousand people in your local community, let alone your city, state, or nation. Have you considered whether or not you’re experiencing a process issue?
Mastering Your Life: Lessons on Owning Your Sh*t
So, when we talk about "owning your sh*t" as a part of building your dream life, we're talking about the process of embracing every aspect of yourself, from the messy to the marvelous…
A Badass Mom's Uncharted Path to Success: Navigating Life's Twists, Turns and Traumas
But here's the unspoken truth: even when we've planned for the everyday drama, there's an element we rarely anticipate - the potential trauma that can accompany our pursuit of success.
The Green-Eyed Monster: Harnessing the Power of Envy on the Path to Success
The journey to accomplishing 'impossible' dreams is fraught with challenges, and one formidable obstacle women often face is envy. Envy has the power to disrupt businesses, hinder collaboration, impede personal growth, and strain day-to-day functioning.
