Pleasure & Power
The Embodied Value Retreat

JULY 24–25, 2026 MADISON, WI

 We’re done negotiating our million-dollar lives from the clearance rack.
Pleasure & Power is what it looks like to live that decision.
Because deciding is one thing.
Living it out… is something else.

You’ve built a life that works…

This is where you practice moving differently—
not in theory, but in real time.

Pleasure & Power is a 2-day, in-person immersive experience for women who are ready to move in alignment with what they’ve already decided.

Start where you are. Cancel anytime.

Now we live our million-dollar dreams.

You made a decision.

You said you were done shrinking.
Done overgiving.
Done negotiating from less.

But that doesn’t mean it shows up automatically.

This is where you:

  • practice moving in alignment with your decisions

  • stay present in your body when it matters

  • build the capacity to hold what you say you want

…and start living like someone who doesn’t collapse in the moments that matter.

Live in it.

Real-Time Decision Making

Practicing how you ask, choose, and move when it actually matters.

Body Awareness

Building awareness of your physical presence and responses.

Power Environments

Creating environments that support your power.

Personal Power Kit

Developing your style, scent, environment, and presence.

This Practice

This isn’t about knowing your worth.

You can know your worth…
and still hesitate when it’s time to ask for more.

You can see the pattern…
and still fall back into it when you’re tired, triggered, or unsure.

You can say you’re done shrinking…
and still shrink in the moments that matter.

You can believe you start enjoying life after…

and still choose work over pleasure.

This is not failure.

It just means:
you haven’t practiced a different way of moving yet.

Pleasure + Power

A behind-the-scenes audio series introducing Pleasure + Power—for the woman whose life looks good on the outside but doesn’t fully feel like hers. These reflections explore what happens when you stop performing your life and start experiencing it.

“Your life looks good—but it doesn’t feel good.”

Why Pleasure and Power Exists
Dr. Sagashus Levingston

A reflection on the gap between building a full life and actually experiencing it—and why pleasure can’t be an afterthought.

“You learned to choose between power and pleasure.”

The Taboo (The Pleasure + Power Together)
Dr. Sagashus Levingston

A look at the unspoken rule that keeps women contained—and what shifts when you stop choosing and allow both.

This is where you stop being on the run inside your own life.

“You became a mother—and disappeared.”

Mothers and Permission
Dr. Sagashus Levingston

A deeper look at how motherhood shapes permission—and what it means to choose yourself without losing who you are.

What we’re doing in this room:

  • practicing decision-making in real time

  • exploring how you show up when it’s time to ask, choose, and receive

  • building awareness of your physical presence and responses

  • creating environments that support your power

  • being intentional about embedding joy and pleasure into our lives

This is not surface-level.

This is where you begin to move differently.

The Work

WHAT THE PLEASURE + POWER IS

This is not a retreat where you sit and think.
This is not passive learning.

This is a 2-day immersive experience where you:

  • experience yourself differently

  • practice new ways of showing up

  • build the capacity to move with clarity and power

  • develop your personal Power Kit

Because you don’t need more insight.
👉 You need practice.

WHAT CHANGES

You will walk away with:

  • a grounded sense of how to move differently

  • increased comfort being seen, heard, and valued

  • the ability to ask for more without hesitation

  • stronger boundaries and clearer decisions

  • a felt understanding of what power actually feels like

This isn’t about perfection.
👉 It’s about how your life feels to live.

WHAT HAPPENS INSIDE

You practice decision-making in real time

PRACTICE

You see how you actually show up

AWARENESS

You allow yourself to feel pleasure and power

EMBODIMENT

You put power and pleasure moves on your calendar.

INTEGRATION

HOW IT WORKS

Over two days, you will:

  • practice real conversations—money, boundaries, and asking for what you want

  • step into live simulations (bankers, partners, high-stakes decisions) where you typically feel powerless—and renegotiate your position in real time

  • get direct feedback on how you speak, respond, and hold your power

  • build your Personal Power Kit—clear scripts, decisions, and standards you don’t second-guess

  • define your Pleasure Practice—exploring taste, touch, scent, sound, and visual indulgence, along with intimacy, adventure, escape, and satisfaction

  • begin intentionally embedding those experiences into your life so pleasure is not occasional—but integrated

This experience is about how you move—and how you allow yourself to feel while you’re moving.

  • In-person, 2-day immersive retreat

  • Interactive + experiential

  • Designed for real-time application

What’s Included in the Experience

POWER (How You Move)

  • Live Teaching + Real-Time Frameworks

  • High-Level Negotiation + Asking for More

  • Real-Life Money + Decision Scenarios (pricing, boundaries, opportunities)

  • BODY + PRESENCE (How You Show Up)

PLEASURE (What You Allow Yourself to Experience)

  • Scent Identity + Sensory Activation Experience

  • Pleasure Mapping (taste, touch, scent, sound, visual indulgence)

  • Exploration of intimacy, satisfaction, and personal desire

ENVIRONMENT + INTEGRATION (How You Build Your Life)

  • Environment Design Lab (create a space that supports your power + comfort)

  • Personal Power + Pleasure Kit Development (style, scent, environment, presence, scripts)

  • Workbook + Power Kit Journal

VIP EXPERIENCE

Everything in Standard, plus:

  • Private VIP Group (Facebook)

  • 2 Live Integration Sessions (Virtual)

  • Hot Seat Coaching on Real-Life Situations

  • Power + Pleasure Kit Refinement + Application

  • Aftercare Support (2–3 Weeks)

  • Expert Drop-In Sessions (targeted support)

Embodiment Portrait Experience (VIP Only)

A guided, professionally facilitated photo experience designed to capture how you see yourself now—after doing the work.

This is not about performance.

👉 It’s about presence, comfort, and owning your body without hesitation.

BENEFITS

By completing this experience, you will be better positioned to:

  • Ask for more—whether that’s money, opportunity, or support—and hold your position

  • Make clearer, higher-value decisions that directly impact your income and opportunities

  • Stop overgiving your time, energy, and access where it’s not being matched

  • Handle high-stakes conversations without shrinking, avoiding, or overexplaining

IMPORTANT

These are possible outcomes of the work.
This experience does not guarantee specific results.

It changes how you see and position yourself—
so different results become possible.

This is a curated, high-level overview.
For the full features and benefits, click below.

Investment

General Admission: $997
Society Members Admission: $797

VIP (Limited) Admission: $1,797

Spots are limited.

You built a big, beautiful life. You deserve to enjoy it.

Pleasure + Power is where you begin moving differently—
in your body, your decisions, and your daily life.

And you don’t have to figure out how to sustain that on your own.

The Infamous Mothers Society is where this work continues—
giving you structure, support, and a place to stay connected to the life you’re building.

THE JOURNEY

This is one structured path through the work.
Each experience builds on the next—while The Society supports you throughout.

You don’t have to follow this path—
but if you’re looking for structure, this shows you how it fits together.

Ongoing support + structure.
You practice living differently—consistently.

The Society

Clarity + awareness.
You see how you actually show up.

The Naked Experience

Application + experience.
You practice power and pleasure in real time.

Pleasure + Power Retreat

Rewrite + redesign.
You change how you live.

Becoming Infamous

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Pleasure & Power is a 2-day immersive experience where you practice making decisions, using your voice, and staying present in your body in real time.

    This is not a lecture.
    It’s a live environment where you apply what you’ve learned—through conversation, scenarios, and guided experiences.

  • It’s both—but neither in the traditional sense.

    You will be taught.
    But more importantly, you will practice.

    This is an immersive experience designed to move you out of theory and into real-time application

  • No.

    Naked supports awareness.
    Pleasure & Power focuses on application.

    Some women come in having done that work.
    Others arrive ready to experience something different and build awareness along the way.

  • You will be:

    • Practicing high-stakes conversations

    • Making decisions in real time

    • Noticing how your body responds under pressure

    • Adjusting how you speak, respond, and hold your position

    • Engaging your senses (scent, environment, presence)

    • Exploring what pleasure actually feels like in your life

    This is active, not passive.

  • No.

    This is about your relationship to pleasure as a whole—
    how you experience your life, your body, your environment, and your desires.

    Nothing in this experience requires you to share or participate beyond your comfort.

  • You are not required to share anything you’re not ready to share.

    The environment is designed to support you in participating at your own pace—
    while still giving you the opportunity to engage when you’re ready.

  • This is for women who:

    • Are already achieving—but want more from their lives

    • Feel disconnected from what they’ve built

    • Know they’re holding back in conversations, decisions, or opportunities

    • Are ready to experience their life differently—not just think about it

  • This is not for someone looking for passive content or surface-level change.

    You will be asked to pay attention, participate, and make real-time adjustments.

  • Women often leave this experience more:

    • Clear in their decisions

    • Grounded in their body

    • Confident in conversations

    • Intentional with their time, money, and energy

    But this is not about instant transformation.

    It’s about changing how you move—so different results become possible.

  • Yes.

    You will leave with:

    • A personal Power + Pleasure framework

    • Tools to support your decision-making and presence

    • A clearer understanding of how you want to move going forward

  • You will have the option to continue the work inside The Society or through deeper experiences.

    This is not meant to be a one-time moment—
    it’s designed to shift how you live.

  • Yes.

    VIP includes additional support, coaching, and integration after the experience—so you can apply what you’ve learned in real-life situations.

  • The Pleasure & Power Retreat takes place July 24–25 as a two-day, in-person experience.

    This is a weekend immersion, designed for you to step away from your daily responsibilities and fully engage in the work.

    This is the only Pleasure & Power will be offered in 2026.

 If you’ve made it this far, you already know.

STILL THINKING ABOUT IT?

That’s 100% fine—and normal. If something in this is hitting, but you’re not fully ready to commit, that matters.

Don’t ignore it.
Start here, and we’ll help you figure out what your next step actually is.

UPCOMING EVENTS